Sketchy

If you could see what is going on in my mind lately, it is this

Bridal Sketches

 

Lela Rose

Marchesa

Sketches.

All day long I’m sketching away in my head, trying to come up new designs that my Brides will love.  When I finally get a moment, I sit down, collect my thoughts and do a little bit of sketching.

I have come up with a few new designs that I have up and running that should be in my stores in a couple of months that I’m so excited about!  I wish I could show them to you guys, but they might give me away.

I do have a question for all of you lovely ladies out there…

What style do you love that you feel is not being represented well in the Bridal Industry?  You have looked and looked and looked for this type of gown and cannot find it anywhere or it is just horribly designed.

I would LOVE this feedback from all of you!

Well, Look Who We Have Here…

Surprise I'm Back!

I know, I know.

As I have said in past posts, this is my busy season and between running the stores, designing a new line of dresses and doing guest posts on another blog, I’ve been worn out.

My Husband has been asking me when I would start Blogging again and I told him that I didn’t think anyone (but him) really cares (wah wah wah).

But then I got an email tonight from a reader that made me feel awesome and isn’t that why everyone blogs, is to feel awesome?

Oh it’s not?

I thought it was just a bunch of Me Monsters out there writing about themselves, me included.

I kid, I kid.  Kinda.

So, I can’t promise that I will write as much as I used to, but I will write and I will always be here to answer your questions and help with all of your wedding fashion needs.

Ahhhhhhhhh… it feels good to be back.

Merry Christmas Ya Filthy Animal!

If you are looking at the title of this post and thinking “whaaaaa…?”, you really need to brush up on your Christmas Classics my friend.

I think it goes without saying that I won’t be posting during the Christmas and New Year Holiday.

Cute Christmas Tree

 

I mean, I love you guys.

But I love my family more.

Merry Christmas to all and to all a good night!

Wedding Gown Wednesday

When I got married, I had never heard of Gossip Girl.

My husband and I were living in La Jolla in our little love nest and one of our favorite things to do was to cuddle up on our giant Lovesac (it sounds dirty, it’s not.  It’s always fun to see what your husband brings to the marriage.  I could only imagine how many other girls he cuddled on that thing.  I had it washed.  Thoroughly. ) and we would watch whatever we had on our DVR.

Well, it was my Husband that introduced me to the lives of Serena, Blair, Chuck and Dan.

Gossip Girl Series Finale

 Yeah, I know.

I hit the jackpot when it comes to husbands.

I can’t say that I was totally absorbed in their stories, but when it came to my work?

This show was a jack pot!

Girls were watching this.

Girls were wanting to look like this.

Not just girls, adults.

I found myself watching the Upper East Siders and taking mental notes on what they were wearing because I knew that I was going to be asked for those looks.

Blair Waldorf Season Finale

I sold more headband those first couple of years thanks to Blair Waldorf.  She is my husband’s favorite.

Why do I bring this up?

Well, it was the Series Finale and there were a couple Weddings and with Weddings comes Wedding Dresses.

Here is Serena Van Der Woodsen’s gown

Serena Van Der Woodsen Wedding Gown Georges Chakra

 

In true Serena fashion her dress was a statement piece.  It was funky, stylish and different.

Serena Van Der Woodsen Wedding Dress

 

Surprisingly Blair also went for something a little more funky.

Blair Waldorf Wedding DressYes, this Elie Saab (who, may I say, was a super nice guy when I worked with him) has a very traditional silhouette, but the color is eye catching.

Way to take that “Something Blue” to the next level Blair.

Blair Waldorf Wedding Dress

 

I don’t think anyone will be clamoring into my stores wanting these dresses anytime soon, but I do think you will see more gold and blue accents in the upcoming year.

What did you think of their choice of gowns?

Which one was your favorite.

Oh and by the way

Dan Humphrey Gossip Girl Series Finale

 

I knew it was him all the way back in Season 2 when you all of you thought it was Darota.

Darota Gossip Girl Series Finale

 

I don’t know if that makes me awesome or a huge dork.

I’ll take awesome.

Important Reminder

Hi.

Like we’ve talked about before, this is time when most people get engaged.

How to pop the question

 

And before I forget, let me tell you congrats!!

I just wanted to remind all of you newly engaged ladies of what you need to do now.

It can feel like you have a lot on your shoulders with planning the whole wedding, so let me take a little bit of that weight off.

Look towards the top of my blog.

Are you looking?

Do you see where it says “A Must Read“?

You need to read those articles.

They will help you in your journey to find that perfect dress.

Trust me on this one.

I’m an expert.

 

NOT Wedding Gown Wednesday

I interrupt this regularly scheduled Wedding Gown Wednesday post with an important message.

A phenomenon started when I was 15 back in 2000 (you can do the math, I don’t care).

Back then, I was kind of my mom’s little assistant.

The Parent Trap

Think Elizabeth James and Hallie in The Parent Trap. Except I didn’t turn into a crazy drug addict when I grew up.

I would go to the shop and assist her with Brides.  Ya know, carrying dresses, grabbing slips, putting the gowns away.  It was her way of introducing me to the whole Bridal fashion world.  Yes, I had helped her in the past with buying and designing gowns, but was never in the trenches.  Ya know, getting down and dirty.

 

We started getting TONS of Brides that were coming in and telling us their wedding date was January 1st of the next year.  After they would say this, my mom would shoot me a look.

Oh don’t worry, the Brides never saw the look, but I did and I knew what it was.

The Devil Wears Prada“We have another one.”

They were getting married on 01/01/01.

Every year they kept coming.

02/02/02

03/03/03

04/04/04

You get the idea.

I started being able to recognize who they were before they even told me.  It was the same kind of Bride.

Today, 12/12/12, is a day of celebration for me.

Celebrate!

It’s the last day this can happen for about 100 years.

I’m not hating.

I promise that I’m not!

I just don’t like gimmicks.

ESPECIALLY with weddings.

Sorry.

Can we still be friends?

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Indecent Proposal

ahhhhhhh December.

The top proposal month of the year.

All over the world people are dropping to their knees asking the one that they just can’t live without to spend forever with them.

… and this is why I’m in business.

I know that everyone is looking for the most original and perfect way to pop the question and for some reason, about four years ago, a weird trend started cropping up in one of my stores.

I would get phone calls from the Popper (the one proposing) telling me that the Poppee (the one being proposed to) would be coming in to try on dresses.  The Popper wanted to come in before the the Poppee’s appointment (have I lost you yet?) and decorate their dressing room with rose petals and be waiting in the room.  When the Poppee came into the dressing room, they would find the Popper on one knee ready  to propose.

Yes… this is the Hoff proposing in a dressing room because, if we are being honest, this is the kind of guy that proposes in a dressing room.

I found this strange.

But it worked.

They said yes.

The Popper would then promptly leave and the Poppee would try on gowns.  The End.

I don’t know, I’m not really a fan.

I would be interested to hear your proposal stories and hey, let me know if I’m totally wrong about not liking the whole dressing room thing.  Maybe it is super romantic and I’m just totally out of touch.

In other important news…

I want to introduce you to the Fabulous Beekman Boys

This is them

They are the underdogs that won The Amazing Race last night.

Look them up.  They have the coolest life and the most beautiful historic home.

Congrats you guys.

 

Wedding Gown Wednesday

Get ready for some va va va voom!

And not in a “hey, here are my boobs” way.  I mean, that is a huge no no on your wedding day.

Let’s keep it classy, ladies.

You can be sexy without showing EVERYTHING.  It’s actually sexier to NOT to show everything.

Exhibit A:

This mermaid cut gown is made out of a Chantilly lace with a blush satin underneath.  Look at how gorgeous that silk satin sash is.  It draws the eye to the smallest part of her waist.

The dress is designed by Yumi Katsura and do you see why it’s a va va va voom gown?

A mermaid cut gown creates the look of definite curves and when you pair it with a sash at the natural waist line?  Look out!

And it helps that the satin underneath is almost a nude color.

YOWZA!

What’s even better?  It’s not a gown that you would be nervous to wear in front of your Grandma.

A mermaid cut is perfect for that bride who has more of a boyish figure and wants to have the look of a more curvaceous figure.

If you want to see more of Yumi Katsura’s gowns, click here.

 

Gather Around Children

while I tell you a story.

There are always certain Brides that stick out in my mind, either for good reasons or bad.

For some reason I’ve been thinking about this one Bride that I worked with about two years ago.

I had just closed the store and was grabbing a few things at the cash counter.

By this time, I am exhausted.  A day full of hormonal Brides, carrying heavy dresses and directing traffic makes me so tired that all I want to do is get home to my family.  As I turn around to leave, I hear a knock at the window.

I roll my eyes.

I take a deep breath and prepare myself for this:

I turn around and tiredly smile at the women standing at my door.  As I walk towards them, I prepare myself to tell them what I always tell late stragglers that want me to reopen my doors and stay an extra hour just so they can play in my dresses.  ”Sorry ladies, we are closed.  I would be happy to make you an appointment for another day.”

You would be shocked how many women yell at me at this point.  The thought that goes through my head while they rip me a new one is “do they do this at Nordstrom when they show up after they close?  Do they expect them to open the doors and let them shop?  They do understand that with the Internet and cell phones it is super easy to find out store hours and make a plan, right?”

But this was different.  I opened the door and rattled off my lines and these women were so sweet and understanding.  So much, in fact, that they struck a cord with me and I let them in.

Look I’ll keep this short, but she is one of my favorite Brides and I will always remember her and I’ll tell you why.

She was genuine.

I think I’m a pretty good judge of character, especially in Brides and she was just… different.

She was in her late 40′s and had never been married before.

Now that I think of it, I don’t think she had ever really been in a relationship before.  She was tall, lanky, plain and soft spoken.  She had brought her mom and younger married sister with her.

She walked up to a dress, not a particularly beautiful gown and she only wanted to try that one on.  I helped her in the dressing room and when she came out to look in the viewing area, she started to cry.

So did her mother and sister.

The happiest tears I have ever seen come from a Bride.

She felt beautiful.

She was marrying someone that she loved and that she had waited a long time for.

I started to cry just watching the Bride, Mother and Sister embrace each other.

And then we all felt silly and just laughed.

She bought the dress that night and I’m pretty sure I missed out on dinner with my husband, but I’m so happy I got to be with this genuine Bride and her family.

I wonder where she’s at right now…

Hope that wasn’t too much cheese for one night.